Grown-ups often talk to babies in a special way called “parentese.” When using parentese, you speak in higher, more musical tones. You say vowels slower and more clearly. For example, “good morning” becomes “goooood moooorning!”
Research shows that babies pay more attention when parentese is used. This extra attention helps them learn language faster. So using parentese helps babies develop speaking skills.
Parentese is different from plain “baby talk.” With parentese, grown-ups still use real words and grammar. But, the tone and speed make it easier for little ones to understand.
Using parentese is an easy way for you to help your baby learn. You can boost your child’s language skills by talking in a more musical, exaggerated way. So next time you greet your little one, try saying “helllloooo!” and emphasize those vowels.
Fit “Parentese” Into Your Daily Routines
Talking. Describe what you are doing when you:
- Change your baby’s diaper – to keep them clean and dry.
- Feed your baby – so that they grow and develop.
- Putting your baby in a car seat – to go somewhere in a car.
- Give your baby a bath or put on their pajamas – getting ready for bedtime.
Pointing. Point to and name the objects around you when you are:
- Changing your baby’s clothes or bathtime – name your baby’s body parts – head, fingers, elbows, and legs.
- In the kitchen, outside, or in a store. Name the objects around you.
- Reading to your baby – point to and name the pictures in a book.
Singing. Make up silly songs about what you are doing or how you are feeling.
Making Faces. Describe how facial expressions match emotions.
- Matching facial expressions with emotions helps your baby build self-regulation and executive functioning skills.
- Be expressive with your face and gestures.
- Help your baby match your voice, facial expressions, and language.
You’ll be surprised how quickly your infant or toddler mirrors what you say and do.
“There is no one way to be a perfect parent and a million ways to be a good one.”
Jill Churchill